The Moon as My Cosmic Bestie

Using Lunar Cycles to Flow Through Life

Let’s talk about the moon. Not just the pretty glow-in-the-sky moon, but the moon as a vibe, a guide, a cosmic buddy who’s always there, quietly checking in on us.

For me, the moon is more than just something to admire on a clear night. It’s part of my spiritual toolkit—kind of like a calendar, a compass, and a best friend rolled into one.

How the Moon and I Go Way Back

I’ve been obsessed with the moon since I was a kid. I remember driving home at night, staring out the car window, and feeling like the moon was following us. It made me feel safe, like it was watching over me and my family.

Fast forward to adulthood, and that connection has only grown deeper. The moon feels like this wise, ancient friend who’s seen it all—my good days, my heartbreaks, my big wins, and my low points.

One of my favorite moon memories is from years ago when my best friend and I were chasing a full moon. We drove around until we found the perfect spot, parked, sat in the trunk of her car, and just talked while sipping drinks under the glow of the moon. We accidentally fell asleep there, and honestly? It’s still one of the best nights of my life.

There’s also the time I was going through a tough spot and looked outside to see the full moon. It felt like she was telling me, “You’re gonna be okay.” And she was right—things turned around, and now, every time I think of that night, it makes me smile.

The Moon and My Spiritual Practice

Here’s the thing: the moon is steady. She’s always there, cycling through her phases, never in a rush. I’ve started using that rhythm in my own life, letting the new and full moons guide me in small but meaningful ways.

The New Moon: Setting Intentions

For me, the new moon is like hitting “reset.” It’s quiet, dark, and perfect for planting seeds—both metaphorical and literal. Every month, I use the new moon to set intentions.

These aren’t always big, dramatic goals. Sometimes it’s as simple as focusing on rest, joy, or reconnecting with myself. It’s not about seeing instant results; it’s about aligning my energy and trusting that, like any seed, my intentions will grow if I nurture them.

The Full Moon: Gratitude

When the full moon rolls around, it’s like a natural checkpoint. I pause to take stock of how far I’ve come and give thanks for the things that are unfolding—even if they’re still works in progress.

It’s less about results and more about vibes. Did I show up for myself this month? Am I in alignment with what I said I wanted? If so, it’s worth celebrating, even if the finish line is still far off.

Why I Love Working with the Moon

What I love about using the moon as a guide is that there’s no pressure. She’s not here to judge or micromanage. She’s just... there. A steady, glowing reminder to check in with myself, set intentions, and let life flow.

And the best part? It’s not just about the big, flashy goals. The moon reminds me to slow down, reflect, and find gratitude in the little things.

How You Can Work with the Moon Too

If this sounds like something you’d vibe with, here’s how to start:

1. New Moon: Think about what you want to focus on for the next month. Write it down, say it out loud, or just hold the intention in your heart.

2. Full Moon: Take a moment to reflect and celebrate. What’s gone well? What’s shifted? What are you grateful for?

3. In Between: Use the phases to check in and realign if needed. No stress, no pressure—just a gentle nudge to stay connected to your intentions.

The Moon as Your Steady Witness

Here’s the coolest thing: the moon is always there. She doesn’t care if you’re having a great day or a terrible one. She’s not judging your intentions or your progress. She’s just watching, holding space for you to do your thing.

So whether you’re setting goals, going through a tough time, or just enjoying the quiet glow of a full moon, know that she’s got your back.

Give it a try. Look up at the moon tonight, and let her remind you to slow down, breathe, and trust the flow of life. And who knows? Maybe you’ll end up making a new cosmic bestie too.

With love and light,

Chika B.